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this guy follows me everywhere. i wouldn't mind but hes incredibly irritating. i try to tolerate him, but he does all sorts of stuff that really makes me angry. i always try to avoid him but he does stuff like wait for me outside class and finds reasons to tag along. stuff he does:
1. whenever we walk by girls, he says "OH MY GOD DID YOU SEE THAT HOT GIRL". he sasy it loud enough that anyone within 20 meters can clearly hear it. he then goes on to say that "WOW THIS SCHOOL HAS SO MANY HOT GIRLS". its the SAME thing every single time. whenever a girl thats mildly attractive walks by, he says this really loudly =(.
2. he doesn't do his homework/assignment. then on the day its due, he asks me LOADS of questions about it as if he doesn't understand something. the first few times, i just thought he was stupid (not that i would normally call people this, but i HATE this guy) so i helped him. oh and if you think calling him stupid is mean, well, heres an example of the questions he asks me:
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a) "Hey adel, do i do this part before or after i do the experiment" *points to paragraph titled HYPOTHESIS.
b) Instead of just reading the instructions, he spends half an hour asking me various questions about what we're supposed to do,how to do it. with the information he gathers from these questions, he tries to piece together what hes supposed to do for the assignment. reading it would take 5, maybe 10 minutes.
3. he tries to act "cool" by always using stuff like "its all good though", or "im aiiiiiiiiight". today, in the time period of about 30 seconds, he followed up sentences with "its all god though" THREE times. actually, the third time wasn't even a sentence. it was just a stand-alone "its all good though". he walks like an APE. he talks in an unnaturally deep voice. i know this isn't his natural voice, because it just sounds abnormal.
4. he added me to msn in the beginning of the year, before i realized i loathed him. he messages me about 5 times a week, just to say "watcha doin". when i say "nothing". he waits 10 minutes, then messages me again with "watcha doin' now".
5. once on msn, he started asking me questions about email tracing.... eventually he told me that he had sent an angry email to a girl and now hes scared shes going to trace it, cus apparently shes furious about it. i took a pic of that convo LOL.
6.today after class, i ran out as fast as possible, cus i know this is one of those days he tries to catch me after class. as i was walking to the place i go to hide from him during my break between classes, he ran and caught up with me. he now knows one of the 3 places i go to, to avoid him =(.
WHY ME ARG
i try to be rude to him (you know, only 1 word answers to his questions, keep a larger distance from him when hes "tagging along" (he always closes the distance and traps me between him and the hallway wall..>_>)
lue i need help =(. this guy just doesn't get it. i've noticed that i subconciously get super depressed when hes around...hes pointed out that i look unhappy a few times >_>. this happen to anyone else? if you have ideas on how i might improve the situation, feel free to share |
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Denzo
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| ask someone you know to insult him lightly and then laugh with him. ask him to do it more and more and hang around as much as you can with other persons. i knew someone similair, i only lost him after a month or two. |
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RitchieRich
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be grown up about it and say
" look, i'm not interested in making any new friends at the moment, i'm sorry if this sounds rude, i don't mean to be it's just that i'd rather you gave me some space for personal reasons, pease can you respect my wish "
if he still persists, tell him bluntly to leave you alone, if he further persists, see someone in authority and explain the situation, maybe a proffesional person can reason with him or at least make him understand, from that point on, it would be better if someone in authority knew about the harrassment just incase it turns nasty |
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one night go out onto a playing field.... make sure its deserted and that no one sees u.
u will need to take a spade, some garden cane, a bin bag full of leaves and a wild ferocious animal eg tiger.
carefully dig a square (or circular) hole into the turf... 7/8ft deep should suffice. be careful not to leave the removed earth around the hole!
next place the ferocious animal (of your choice) into the dug out hole... then carefully place the garden canes over the hole to create a cover. finally scatter leaves across the canes.
it is important that you do not tell your friends about this, as it will ruin the suprise.
now all you need to do is challenge your stalking mate to a game of late night football. if all goes well u wont see him again.
this worked for me many times growing up. admitedly it became harder to track down tigers, but a big dog makes a good substitute.
hope this helps.
all the best
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Stop dreaming
People who say that are blaspheming
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DJ_Brady
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Hmm why dont you give the guy a chance ? Ive done things like this before  It aint as bad as this guy though but Ive done some * stuff like this to some ppl to get their attention... how old are you if you dont mind me asking.. I just went 17 a few months ago.. anyway whats it you dont like about him does he have any friends even lol ? Does no1 else not see what hes doing..? If I were you I wouldnt be bothered about it theres more important things to worry about, if anything you could just mess around with him even wind him up but its probably best you just tell him to leave you alone. |
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Sounds to me that this person just dosen't no how to take a hint. You got to now pluck up the courage and tell him like it is. You don't want him hanging around, following you and just being in your face. You have to nip this problem in the bud, leave it any longer and it'll just get worse and harder to tell him to bog off later on down the line.
I hope you sort this problem out before it gets out of hand. |
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